Back to the Bay Area!

We will be on the move again. Tomio matched at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center! We will be moving back to the bay area around June :)

Topher turns one today!

Happy Birthday to Topher!

photos to come...

Update

What we did in the last couple of months:
* Visited my parents in Taiwan in December. And we got to play with Jocelyn!

















* Tomio interviewed in the bay area, Davis, Seattle, and LA. Topher and I tagged along with him to Seattle and made it a family vacation.














* Topher learned to crawl and stand up with support.














What we are doing now:
* We are all trying to get over a cold :( It's been a miserable week.
* Tomio is back in Sacramento after being away for 2 weeks. He started school again this week.
* Topher just got his first hair cut this week. (It's a sign that Topher needs a hair cut when people ask me if he was a boy or a girl when he's wearing blue). How does he look?














* Topher is going through separation anxiety. It's so hard to leave him at daycare in the morning.
* Topher loves to play with Oski! He calls Oski "da!"














* Enjoying our time with Topher.














Looking forward to:
* Our parents coming to visit in February.
* Topher's 1st birthday.
* Finding out where we will be for the next couple of years based on Tomio's residency match.
* Tomio's graduation in June.

Time change

Topher and I got to church right on time today. Since Topher was born, we rarely make it on time because we are always scrambling to get out of the door. It didn't matter if we wake up at 6am or 8am to leave by 9am, somehow we still ended up late at church. I was so excited that we would be able to worshop right when it starts (at 9:30am) until the first person we ran into told me that it's only 8:30am. Sigh... at least we are early this time.

Ever since Tomio is away, spiders in the house have been "saved". I have made a list of where the spiders are/were so that Tomio can take care of them when he comes back. It has become a daily routine for me to check those specific locations and make sure that the spiders are still there. To my disappointment, one spider has moved and disappeared from one of the locations :( I can't wait for Tomio to come back in 3 days.

Crazy Month

Tomio is on an away rotation in the bay area this month. I think this is the longest period of time that we are apart from each other since we got married! Life is more chaotic without Tomio around. But Topher and I have survived the first 2 weeks, 2 more weeks to go!

Topher started to say "da da" last week. I'm not sure what/who his "da da" sounds are referring to since Tomio was not around. Since then, I have been trying to teach him "ma ma". The most I got out of him was "mmmmm" when he is grumpy.

There are things that I never thought I would do before we had Topher. So when we received this USEFUL "gadget" as a baby gift, I was not sure if and when I would ever use it. The idea of sucking on someone's nose just seems very strange and yucky.










But when Topher got sick and was extremely congested and uncomfortable, this snut sucker became the best thing that made Topher happy. I won't go into detail of how it works, it's pretty self-explanatory...










Here are some recent photos of Topher. He can do lots of things now!

Growing out of his carseat.














Making a mess with peas puree.














Sour apple puree!














Sitting up and eating his book.














Eating banana.














Topher and I plan to visit the bay area next weekend. Anyone available to play?

First week

This past week has been a week of adjustments. Tomio started his ICU rotation, I went back to teaching part-time (mornings only), and Topher started his part-time daycare. Tomio is on a crazy busy schedule. In order to get Topher and everything ready in the morning, I have to wake up around 5:30am. It's weird to be up before sunrise, especially when Topher and I have been sleeping in all summer.

Last Monday and Tuesday were the most difficult days. I was almost in tears leaving Topher at the daycare. I thought he would be in tears too, but he was actually quite amused with the new surroundings that he didn't even know that I had left. It's good that he is enjoying daycare. But I was a bit sad that he didn't even notice my absence. Mixed feelings.

On a happier note, Tomio's parents came to visit this weekend. We celebrated Topher's 6 month birthday!

10 Simple Pleasures

Tagged by Joy.

10) Worship music. I love listening and singing worship music.

9) Spend time with Topher. I like learning new things about Topher. His smile is priceless.

8) Yummy dessert. Eating is a pleasure. I enjoy all kinds of sweets - tiramisu, creme brulee, fresh fruit tarts, shaved ice, taro soup with tapioca, custard pie...etc. The list goes on.

7) Free time. Not having to rush somewhere or meet deadlines, and just have time to do nothing and everything.

6) Take a leisurely stroll after dinner.

5) Journal. Being able to reflect, process and write down my thoughts.

4) Travel. I like finding out new things about new places.

3) Sleep in. Being able to sleep in is a pleasure, especially after Topher's arrival.

2) Catch up with friends. Over the phone or in person, it's always nice to catch up with friends.

1) Eat hot pot in the winter or in an air conditioned room on a hot day.

New tricks

Topher is almost 5 months now. He is slowly discovering different functions of his body parts. He can...


grab toys with his monkey feet,


grab things with his hands, including daddy's glasses,


roll over from back to tummy,


sit in his Bumbo seat,


stare at cousin Jocelyn,


and weight train in the play gym.

Tagged

Tagged by Jen (I know, it's been awhile...)

1. Four jobs:
a. Tutor
b. QA Engineer at Helio Med
c. Business planner at Nvidia
d. High School teacher

2. Four Things I Wish I Had Done Earlier In My Life:
a. Short term missions
b. Become a dietician/nutritionist
c. Travel
d. Lasik

3. Four Places I Have Lived:
a. Taipei, Taiwan
b. Los Angeles, California
c. Portland, Oregon
d. Cupertino, California

4. Four Countries I Have Been to:
a. Japan
b. China
c. Italy
d. Greece

5. Four Countries I Would Like to Visit:
a. Australia
b. Italy
c. France
d. Tahiti

6. Four of My Favorite Dishes:
a. Most of Taiwanese night market foods
b. Creme brulee
c. Seafood tomato based pasta without cheese
d. Dim sum

7. Four Sites I Visit Daily:
a. Yahoo email
b. Work email
c. Blogs
d. Can't think of anything else...

8. Four Software Application I Cannot Live Without:
a. Word
b. Excel
c. Explorer
d. Powerpoint

9. Four Things I'll Never Forget:
a. Tomio's proposal
b. Labor
c. Honeymoon on the mediterranean cruise
d. College memories

10. I Tag:
Who hasn't been tagged??

My first mother's day!!

I still can't believe that I'm a mom. Happy Mother's Day to me!!! :)

Separation anxiety?

I have only 2 more weeks of maternity leave left. I can't imagine leaving Tohper and going back to work :( I thought only kids get separation anxiety, but I think have it too. I'm having so much fun with topher, I just want to play with him all day!

Meet Baby Christopher

After 21 hours of labor and c-section, here's baby Christopher!

New born:














One week:














Two weeks:














Three weeks:

Baby Christopher is here!!!

Just wanted to post to let you all know that baby 'Topher arrived today at 3:59am...6 lbs 9 oz, 19 3/4 inches. We're so blessed to be able to share this exciting time with you - thanks for all your prayers!!!
-More posts & pictures to come...

My New Friend

In case you are wondering, Alice is not in labor yet. But at least I'm not home alone all by myself now. Tomio, Alice, and I have been preparing for baby's arrival together :)

This past week, I went to the vet to get my vaccines updated, and I found out that I gained 8 lbs in the last 9 months! Considering that I only weigh about 65 lbs, 8 lbs is more than 10% of my total weight. It's time to exercise.

The highlight of the week was meeting and playing with my new friend, Eric. Eva and Eric visited us in Sacramento, and we went to the park to play fetch. Here are some of my favorite photos:

Showers of Blessing

It's been such a long time since I last blogged, I hardly remember my login and password! Or maybe I can blame my horrible memory on the pregnancy.

As we prepare for the arrival of baby Miyai, we have received an overwhelming amount of love and support from family and friends. We have had multiple baby showers in LA, the bay area, and Sacramento since December, and I am so grateful to have many family and friends to rejoice with us. Here are some photos from the bay area shower:
















Monday will be my last day of teaching before I take off for maternity leave. (Yes, can you believe that baby Miyai can arrive anytime now?!) Students are finally starting to realize that I will be gone for a chunk of the semester, and I have received funny/interesting responses from them. Here are a couple:
* "You are leaving us?! Why?" (Ummm... I thought it was obvious for the last 4 months)
* "Are you pregnant?"
* "Couldn't you wait until June when we go on summer vacation?"
* "Do you have a name for the baby? Can you name him after me?"
* "Can we come to the hospital to get help on our homework? Oh, and if we do, can you give us extra credit?"
Even though I can't wait to take time off, I am definitely going to miss the students.

The other great news is that I will be able to finish my thesis this year, possibly before baby Miyai arrives, if he does not come out in the next two weeks. I have completed my data collection and parts of the analysis. I met with my advisor last night, and things are on track. I just need to sit down and write out my thesis, and present it to the committee by February 17th.

The anticipation of baby Miyai comes with much joy and excitment, but also with some fears. Okay, lots of fears. Fears of child labor pain, fears of the unexpected, fears of unpreparedness, fears of becoming a parent...etc. The list goes on. It's strange, the more I prepare, the more unprepared I feel. All these fears constantly bring me humbly back to depend on God, and I am constantly reminded of God's faithfulness and provision. After all, He is the giver of the coming Gift of Grace.

Count your blessings... Yes, we've been showered with so many blessings, I don't even know where to begin.

Sympathy weight...

Some of you may have heard us comment on how we think that Oski might be gaining some "sympathy weight" - we'll let you decide...


(Left: Oski now; Right: Oski prior to Alice's pregnancy)

Thanksgiving Weekend Recap

Hope you all had a Happy Thanksgiving - here's a little recap of what we've been up to...

Thursday: painted the baby's room with my dad (couldn't resist adding the Cal logo & bear - gotta educate the little one early...wink wink), and feasted on a thanksgiving meal of hotpot (no turkey this year)

Friday: attended a relative's funeral down in Stockton...was a beautiful celebration of his life and legacy...he will be dearly missed & always remembered.

-Had some classmates over on Friday night for another hotpot feast and a couple rounds of "bomberman"

Saturday: drove out to Roseville to pick out the baby's crib at 'babies-r-us'

Sunday: Church at UCC, changed the oil in my car, and put the crib together...here's a look at the baby Miyai's room
-and we also took pictures for this year's Christmas card - we had to use the timer function on the camera...was a little tricky getting oski to sit just right - here are some of the funnier "blooper" pics

Update

It's been over a month since our last entry. What have we been up to?

September: Celebrated Sonia & Kale's wedding. It was a beautiful wedding!














Last weekend: Visited the bay area and got to see Joyce & Sam. To show my parents our recent growth, we decided to take some pregnancy photos:







November:
* Tomio is on his third rotation in the hospital. The great part about his current rotation is that he has weekends off, so we can spend some time together on weekends.
* I'm still "growing". Baby has been kicking quite often. I'm still getting used to his kicks. Sometimes I giggle in the middle of teaching because his kicking feels ticklish.
* My research proposal has been approved this past week! Praise God! I'm aiming to have it completed by February 2006, before the baby arrives.
* We are preparing the baby's room. It's exciting, but it's more work than I have ever imagined.
* Oski's gained lots of sympathy weight since I got pregnant. So Tomio put him on a diet.

I'm "growing"

For the first time this week, I realized that when I'm standing up straight and looking down, I can't see my own feet anymore. The only view I have is my own tummy. As baby grows bigger, my bladder is "becoming smaller". So far, my bathroom frequency has tripled. I can't imagine how frequently I will be going to the restroom in another two months.

This week has been an exciting week. I am starting to feel the baby move. Tomio and I also found out the gender of the baby via ultrasound - we are having (take a guess! You have 50/50 chance!)......... a BOY!

Alice's 20 random facts

I've been tagged. It took me awhile to realize that I was tagged...

1) When I was in elementary school, I was nominated to attend a roller blading competition. I was surprised to win a roller blading award considering how "unathletic" I was.
2) Cafe Strada in Berkeley is my favorite cafe.
3) I love milk, especially almond steamed milk.
4) I became lactose intolerant junior year in college. That made me very sad because I wasn't able to enjoy almond steamed milk anymore.
5) I hate cheese, especially parmesan cheese (or any smelly cheese).
6) I used to be very flexible. I did ballet and gymnastics when I was little. I had to quit gymnastics in middle school because I couldn't overcome my fear of the balance beam.
7) I love taro. I'm not sure if it's the taste or if it's because taro is purple. Probably both.
8) When I was in kindergarten, I used to get car sick after riding in ANY car for longer than five minutes.
9) I love sweets, but I don't like chocolate that much.
10) I have never had allergies until I moved to Sacramento. In fact, Oski is the same way.
11) I have had to wear glasses (or corrective lenses) since I was in the fourth grade.
12) I used to like eating milk powder. My sister and I used to get in trouble with eating milk powder when dad & mom weren't home.
13) I like to add gummy bears in my ice cream. I don't know why Tomio thinks that's wierd.
14) I don't like to peel oranges. I ususally avoid eating oranges unless I can find someone to peel them for me.
15) I'm scared of bugs, especially spiders and roaches.
16) I took golf lessons when I was in high school. My dad was so proud of me. But I play golf as if I have never taken lessons before.
17) I love shoes and I can't explain why.
18) The one subject that I never understood is physics.
19) I lived in Oregon for about two years. I was one of the two Asians in the middle school.
20) I had an extra tooth that had to be surgically removed when I was little.

That's all! I won't tag anyone unless you want to be tagged...